A lurvely time ahead
Friday, October 10, 2008 at 07:37AM No sewing projects or scrapbooking projects but instead a car packed to the rafters with papers, ribbons and even a few sewing projects! It's the annual weekend away with the Lurvelies - my group of on-line friends who have been so great to me over the last year. How I would have coped without them, I dread to think.
I'm thinking back to last year - a time of great sadness really as it was the point when I realised that Dick's illness had really taken hold and I struggled being away when I felt I really should have been at home with him. This time I have no other constraints so I am looking forward to a girlie weekend with lots of giggles and fun. The support from the Lurvelies has been fantastic but as a group we have been hit with many, many difficulties this year - health problems, employment problems and yet we continue to support and help each other despite our geographical difference. I have felt a little at a distance in the last few months. Grief is a funny thing. Sometimes there is a huge tiredness that seems to be part of it all - even making a phone call or writing on a blog can be too much, even though you know that in the long-term, it isn't helpful to cut yourself off. I think my friends know that and have been very helpful.
I have just bought Sheila Hancock's book "Just Me" and I am hoping that her story chimes with my experiences. I loved her book "The Two of Us" - describing her life with John Thaw and now I have a feeling that her approach to widowhood is very similar to mine.
I am off to celebrate a birthday today. My dear mum is having the last of her birthdays that start with a 7! What a woman! She has just treated herself to a new car. Bright red and perfect for her needs. Happy birthday and many happy returns!




